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To lead our wives by serving and laying down our lives. Also she is uncomfortable about her body. We must glorify God even in our sex life.

I cant help it if girls would judge me on my looks im average looking with a bit of fat like medium build but not morbidly fat so whats the problem?. The guy may chase but the woman has to want to be caught. Because of the matriarchs hate...

8 Reasons My Wife Won’t Have Sex With Me! - I have noticed it but did not make him feel this. Quite frankly even the men who do so don't always get anywhere either.

As I overheard a group of women this past week in line at a store verbally tear apart a couple of women within their social circle who happened to be absent, I was taken aback by the vitriol. Most women will tell you that they have survived at least one mean girl in their past: a girl who dismissed, put down, or even socially tormented them. What does the research say? It probably goes without saying that the research is complex, particularly because it is challenging or impossible? Fortunately, recent years have seen an uptick in attention when it comes to the research. Research shows that women during the college years may have negative attitudes about particular types of other women. Vrangalova and colleagues 2013 found that female college students were less likely to want to be friends with another female who was seen as sexually promiscuous, when compared to the rate for male college students who wanted to be friends with a promiscuous male peer. The study showed that the women clearly noticed the promiscuous woman and also had negative beliefs about her as a result. In terms of women's approach to , research from Benenson and colleagues 2011 is particularly interesting. According to the study, women may be more sensitive than men to social exclusion, and when they feel threatened by the prospect of being left out, a woman's first response may be to socially exclude a third party. Again, for any woman who's been on the receiving end of a female bully, this will come as no surprise. In addition, Nicki Crick is a true rock star of research. Crick has devoted many years to investigating relational aggression, the type of aggression females appear to engage in more regularly than males who tend to engage in more physical aggression. Crick would most likely argue that women's negative attitudes are actually a manifestation of relational agression. In a study examining the attitudes and aggressive behavior of fourth and fifth grade boys and girls, Crick and Bigbee 1998 found that girls were significantly more relationally victimized, while boys were significantly more overtly victimized. In talking about the influence a mother has on her daughter, we also have to talk about. Social learning theory reminds us that modeling has much to do with how children learn. The real but graphic truth is that there are many mothers out there in the world who aren't so sweet to their daughters, and readily say and do things that would make many of us cringe. It's critical to note that much of what is said and done by mothers that is ultimately hurtful was engaged under the veiled intention of having 'her best interests in mind. The other factor that I see at work in my practice is anxiety. I find that the majority of female criticism actually stems from feeling inadequate in an area of life they value highly. For example, I have a female client who is extremely critical of other's styles, but it's simultaneously worth noting that she has had great difficulty becoming pregnant and is currently in the midst of fertility treatments. With my client, she feels inadequate and defensive, and she defends herself by criticizing other women's parenting styles. In other words, she's not critical of other women because she thinks less of them; she is covetous of what they have instead. The women I have seen clinically over the years also have reported far greater in the appearance department than men, and I see that the pressure women feel from men and the media to fit a certain physical type of thinness and gets transformed to the point that they turn it on each other. Interestingly, one 2012 study from Snapp and colleagues found that young women with high family support and low levels of perceived socio-cultural pressure from family, friends and the media regarding the importance of achieving a 'thin and beautiful' ideal had a more positive. It makes perfect sense, too, so let's all agree to watch the amount of pressure we inflict on young girls. I know, I know: Things seem to look good for Hillary in 2016, and there are lots of other examples of the progress American culture has made in terms of gender equality. Yet women continue to earn less money today than men and occupy fewer positions in and at the heads of Fortune 500 companies. Independent of what the research shows, it's understandable on a common-sense level if women feel that they must work hard to secure whatever social power they can, and this may sometimes take the form of exclusionary practices with other women. When it comes to our kids, I believe that there is much we can do and say to give our daughters the sense that their lives will be equally important to those of men, and I'll teach my daughter that she'll get there by supporting—and not criticizing—other girls. If I'm careful, one day she'll be a woman who will speak positively about other women. Feel free to check out my book on relationships, or follow me on References Association for Psychological Science 2011, March 5. American Psychological Association 1998, March 26. Boys And Girls Are Cruel To Each Other In Different Ways -- But The Effects Are Equally Harmful. A Body Image Model for First-Year College Women. Roles, 2012; DOI: Springer Science+Business Media 2012, May 9. Birds of a feather? Not when it comes to sexual permissiveness. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 2013; DOI: 10. This study would have some weight if it didn't have such a sexist double standard as data. This would be better done by seeing how likely women were to want to be friends with another female who was seen as sexually promiscuous VS. If they used a better example for something that men are ridiculed for doing than see how many men want to be friends with someone doign this thing worty of ridicule, then this study woudl be worth reading. In the past I had friendships with girls who were sexually promiscuous, and I discovered there were several problems with this. First, a lot of the girls seemed to have low self esteem and would only talk about themselves and their problems when we were hanging out. Second, the moment a man called them, they'd drop our plans in an instant and go hang out with the man. Third, when in the company of men, these girls lavished slavish attention on them to the point where it was embarrassing to be around them. I also felt like a third wheel. They made it clear that having a man was the most important thing in their lives and when they weren't with a man they were wasting my time trying to get me to reassure them that one day they'd find a man. Bottom line, in my experience, the girls who slept around the most weren't bad friends just because they slept around. There was some other deficiency in their personalities that made them dull and unreliable friends, and this deficiency was also the cause for their promiscuity. I have befriended promiscuous men and women. All of them had character traits that didn't make them good friends. It wasn't their promiscuity that was a turn-off, but the fact that they bragged about themselves, talked non-stop about the people they slept with, made rude comments, and were also critical of me for not adopting their lifestyle. No matter how many times I told them that I don't like sleeping around, they didn't get it. They also asked nosy questions about my personal life. When I look at my friends, who are not promiscuous, they are more respectful of personal boundaries and are supportive. I walked away from my promiscuous friends, because they were unkind. Not because they were promiscuous. The problem in our society is boys and men. Boys are brought up to feel inferior, evil and naturally bad. Our society attributes this evil to masculinity. Therefore American boys are getting the message that they should be feminine, the more feminine they are the better. This goes against their nature and it results in outbreaks of violence, substance abuse, spousal abuse, education and work failures, and lashing out against society look at the school shootings for example. America is TOXIC to boys and men. It is high time that we American men put women back in their place and take our place as leaders. We should teach boys to be proud of their masculinity. The problem in our society is boys and men. Boys are brought up to feel inferior, evil and naturally bad. Our society attributes this evil to masculinity. Therefore American boys are getting the message that they should be feminine, the more feminine they are the better. This goes against their nature and it results in outbreaks of violence, substance abuse, spousal abuse, education and work failures, and lashing out against society look at the school shootings for example. America is TOXIC to boys and men. It is high time that we American men put women back in their place and take our place as leaders. We should teach boys to be proud of their masculinity. For the longest time, women were made to feel dirty, bas, inferior and useless for their femininity. Now that men experience it for a few years, they wanna cry and slam their fists like a baby. Well, I say too damn bad. Take your No-Woman's Land fantasy elsewhere. You'd think if you were experiencing what women expierineced for all these years, males would be more understanding... Now that they just don't like it, they want to dump it off on women again by putting them in their place... You don't care about women, so why on earth should we give a damn about YOU? So I have to say... Shaming language shaming language shaming language. Someone tells the truth, and it's the butthurt cunt-cunty-Mc'cunt-cunt and whatever the mgtow sites told you to say in a rebutal when you don't have anything else to say in your defense. It's not shaming, the 1 go-to when someone hits the nail on the head when describing your antics , it's truth. The REAL shame is there's still Special Ed's out there with this baseless mindset. You'll never get your bikini-clad harem to wait on you head and foot and love you unconditionally. The problem in our society is boys and men. Boys are brought up to feel inferior, evil and naturally bad. Our society attributes this evil to masculinity. Therefore American boys are getting the message that they should be feminine, the more feminine they are the better. This goes against their nature and it results in outbreaks of violence, substance abuse, spousal abuse, education and work failures, and lashing out against society look at the school shootings for example. America is TOXIC to boys and men. It is high time that we American men put women back in their place and take our place as leaders. We should teach boys to be proud of their masculinity. For the longest time, women were made to feel dirty, bas, inferior and useless for their femininity. Now that men experience it for a few years, they wanna cry and slam their fists like a baby. Well, I say too damn bad. Take your No-Woman's Land fantasy elsewhere. You'd think if you were experiencing what women expierineced for all these years, males would be more understanding... Now that they just don't like it, they want to dump it off on women again by putting them in their place... You don't care about women, so why on earth should we give a damn about YOU? So I have to say... First of all men are absolutely far more understanding than they used to be, but women are obscenely less understanding than they've ever been. You hear it every-time they make the ridiculous implication that men just don't have problems. If I were around in the 50s I'd probably give anything to face the kind of oppression women faced as opposed to being shipped off to die in other men's wars or work myself to death trying desperately to edge out a living for my family. Funny enough most men didn't rule countries and run multi million dollar businesses just like most men don't do that now. So when the expectation is to provide a life for your wife and children so that she doesn't have to work you end up with one of the major contributing factors in why men die younger. Do you want equality or do you want revenge for your half-assed interpretation of what you think the past might have been like? You sold women as cattle and treated them like property for thousands of years. And women are supposed to forget about it so that you do not taste how it feels. Fuck that, it's payback time. You never showed any compassion for us at all in history and we will not tolerate that anymore. Men aren't a collective consciousness and you're still misrepresenting history. Plenty of inequality and mistreated but pretending women were like slaves is dishonest or stupid or both. I'm not an incel. I'm in a committed relationship. Incels are literally just as wrong as you are. You think exactly the same way. Can you say lame duck Barrack'Obama frauds. You liberals are on the wrong side of history... Oh and its usually women who are less attractive who are snarky and jealous of their more attractive peers,but hey feminism made ammends for those types-now even THEY unattractive women can get a date! Women need love and nurture from men. Not feeling like they are in meat markets and can't keep themselves from speaking and defending our quality of lives. Good luck to the younger women of the generation may you learn proper manners that your moms never supplied you. Who are you to tell millions of people that the only way to salvation is to be thin. Who are you to say that only certain people can have it easier than others just because. You and your husband are just as bad as Obama and his smug wife telling us what to eat and what beauty standards are. I challange you and your Alpha husband to better your children before it's too late and get involved in a Church. I don't have a facebook or anything like that but this bitch has been pissing me off for days. Thanks for letting me post on your blog. If anyone wants to send this to the vain whore Maria please let me know so I can woman up. So call me whatever you want. I just want people of your little generation to stop being mean to women like myself to be better as I know who I am just don't need another woman to tell me that I'm not attractive when I know damn well I am. Go to church little pig go to church. As a female Clinician I have found that self-hatred in women is both subtle and pervasive-we are second class citizens in a patriarcal society with a Puritan history-not exactly fertile soil for women to feel good about themselves, let alone equal to men. It is culturally learned in so many ways. Women's sexuality is largely a projection of male fantasy and there is a woeful lack of adequate sex education for both boys and girls. Women then compare themselves to these fantasy imagos and always feel less than. And other women make it worse with competitive displays of their designer goodies. It takes a great deal of work for a woman to find a stable sense of self where she likes and accepts herself for who and what she is. Women who hate other women are projecting their own self-hatred. My elderly mother lives next door to two women sisters who are only friendly to men. Obviously no manners but one can't say hello to a neighbour? My mother's not a nosy neighbour trying to invite herself over so that's not the problem. These two sisters have a lifetime of forging sameness and reinforcing it. Women who gang up and excludr other women are evil IMHO. They give all women a bad name and keep the bitch reputation we have alive and well. Friends who reject others to secure their exclusive bond are immature. Your mom deserves better neighbors and doesn't need them as friends. They will just throw her under the first bus if they do get friendly. They are lucky your mom has integrity and says hello to them. I guess they are man hungry as well. Mom needs to shake the dust off her sandals and move on. Nothing to see here but bitches! Bad behavior from some women does not correspond to all women being seen as bitches. Only immature people lacking critical thinking skills would come to that conclusion. The Mother knows the difference and won't think all women are bitchy just like bad behavior from men does not equate to men thinking all men are badly behaved. I'm glad that more and more attention is being drawn toward the hostility women dish out toward each other. Jealousy among females is extremely pervasive and the hostile conduct which stems from it is intentionally designed by women to keep other female competition in powerless positions. And I am so over society's claim that it's men who keep women down in the workforce. I've been working a long time now with both men and women. Men's hostility toward females in the workplace is trivial at best compared to what women do to women. Relational aggression is a very real mostly female thing that is usually so strategically petty and covert that it flies under the radar of men's awareness. Guys usually miss it. I've seen so many guys fall for evil women because they fail to notice these warning signs of the evil insecure woman. Then he marries her and BAM! All her insecure skeleton bones come out of the closet. It happened to my father. My mom is quite a jealous narcissist type who hates other women, but puts on pretty good act to the contrary. Her insecurity-based rage makes his life just miserable. What it all comes down to with most females is how they feel their looks measure up amongst the competition. Women really are that incredibly shallow and vain. They say men are obsessed with looks. I'm treated better, paid better, and I last longer on the job. The few girlfrinds I have are just great. They're supportive mellow, and we don't threaten or annoy each other. I can tell in 30 seconds flat if I'm dealing with a douche bag. I don't ask why, I just bail. They give us all a bad name. Guys, I'm just so sorry this has happened to us. And, yes you can blame Mom. Run away, guys, run away. I thank all the men who showed me the ropes and taught me the trade. My loyalty to you is forever. Read more about studies that have shown this to be true i. I've also seen it firsthand. Recognizing how women harm each other doesn't mean it's sensible to throw out other truths. The best I can do is help new employees, particularly the younger generation get ahead and hang in there. My hope is they will remember that it was a woman who helped them along. I want them to believe in themselves the way I believe in them. If I wanted to get into management, I would have done that years ago. I believe that power doesn't necessarily rest in the president's chair. I discovered that I have tremendous power in my department. I have moved mountains those above me could not. I'm not interested in perceived power, I'm interested in REAL power. My first piece of advice. Don't play a man's game. Quite frankly even the men who do so don't always get anywhere either. This is not about submission. It IS about cooperation with your coworkers, and supporting the stability of the staff. Its about believing in the mission of your company, and what you can do to help. It's true that sometimes you will be met with obstructionists, and many comments here are about this, but, much higher up, there's an ally for the cause. Find that person, and you can do much to improve conditions at work, and further the mission. Most executives realize they must occasionally talk to people on the front line to get the real picture. The executive who loses touch with his staff will eventually lose control of his company. It's not enough to want power or promotion for yourself. To what purpose would that power be used? The higher up you go, the more compromising you must do to get somewhere. Nobody gets 100 percent of what they want, especially management. Understand this and you will be amazed at how quickly they will open up. Validation feels good, even when you're the boss. It was so refreshing to read your reply. If I had a penny for every time I got a snarky comment about my weight, I would be a millionaire. All these interviews had one thing in common. The interviewing panels were all-female. If the panels had been all-male, I would definetely have been in with a chance. If there had been a male-female split, I might have been in with a chance, but perhaps not such a good one. However, if the interview panel is all-female, I might just as well not show up. This has been the case throughout all 25 years of my working life. I suppose I have gotten some good experience in that time working in male-dominated sectors, where I have been almost the token female in the company. I've seen one petite intelligent woman on several occasions being bullied by various women whom intimidated her and could get away with it because she was afraid of them. It would range from ignoring her when she say good bye in the evenings, asking every other lady on the team what they are doing for lunch except her, talk down to her and undermine her. She was afraid of these people and all the time you would hope she would stick up for herself but she never would. Recently in front of her and a number of people a lady described her as been weedy and when the lady in question tried to defend herself the lady that made the remark managed to make her look even weaker. I think people may see her as a threat but because they see her as weak they can keep knocking her down and keep her in fear of them. She is a good businesswoman but at the back of your mind you don't see a businesswoman you see a weakling and unfortunately their are people more than willing to treat her as a weakling and not a businesswoman. None of them seemed to like their themselves nor their own gender. They were especially hard on their girls... The single first born boy also earned great disdain from his mother who, after four years of being kept alive with medication as a ward of the state in 24 hour care finally died, yesterday. It was as if a great weight lifted from the world when she passed and took all those years of abuse with her. She played favorites and my spouse was not her favorite, so I never met her. The two great grandmothers by blood turned on my daughter once they could no longer easily lift her. First my kid's maternal side repeated the very same eviscerating words to my kid she used on me. When I heard her doing that, I flashed back to age two... This woman, my grandmother was never very kind to me and always quick to point out my flaws. She also got my hair cut against my mother's wishes when I was age 10 and seemed quite satisfied when the cut made me 'ugly. The very same month, my kid's paternal side attempted the very same technique. I knew she didn't like females because of the way my MIL has turned out, and I'd had to put her in her place a few times when she tried to emotionally abuse me in the way so many older women had already tried to do, but I never expected attacks on my baby by her, too. Of course, I grabbed my baby and ran, never to return. We never saw her again, and that Great Grandmother passed on two years later. My mother did not raise me to dislike my own gender probably because of her experience with her parents as she was first born girl and NOT the favorite... But he didn't understand back then when people got married they had babies, and he didn't really want me until I got deathly ill when I was early weaned by a good doctors suggestion from my mother's breast milk. Of course, I was the first born girl, so that didn't help. I also kept winding up in the hospital because it turned out cow milk isn't so good for really young human babies... Additionally, once I reached the age of seventeen, my mother did turn on me. What really sucked is she came back home with her new husband I had been keeping house since after the divorce when I was 12. Back in those days, parents tended to abandon the children of their first marriages. I'm still not sure why, but I felt they were ashamed of me as if I suddenly became an illegitimate. It was very painful. She did not change from this person until my brother was sent over to Iraq. While we now have a very good relationship, I still haven't managed to erase a couple of very painful memories regarding those times. At any rate, my father became very nasty not only when he found out I was pregnant, but it also intensified once he found out I was having a girl. He has been cut out of my life and my child's life, also. All of the afore mentioned great grandmothers played favorites amongst the siblings along with hating on their own girls and this has resulted in fractured families and, interestingly enough, contributed to dropping the socioeconomic status of the families. Because of the matriarchs hate... It is said Manacle the Women, Control the People. And, frankly, women are trained or inculcated by their very own parents or grandparents to hate on each other. Being human, of course, such women are only too glad to turn their self hatred on each other. I turned mine on myself and spent many of my adult years placing myself in harms way in order to leave this world of hatred early. That all changed when I had my baby... I am breaking cycles and raising a whole person regardless of the gender of the body to which this person is born. The one irony in all of this as we wait for the final Great Grandmother to die and take the evil that was done to her at the hands of her mother and father is, my child's Step Great Grandmother really enjoys my kid and has given her more attention and lovingly passed wealth on to my kid. So, I am glad my kid has one great grandmother who loves her. All I remember of my single living Great Grandmother was her back... She had no interest in any of her great grandchildren... Rather, she expects her progeny to earn her love. But when one considers until between the ages of 45-65 males do outnumber females, then it flip flops, and females outnumber the men, it really does behoove the current patriarchal culture to eviscerate the women's self worth early and divide them amongst themselves early in order to continue itself. I can't say the men in the equation are making out very well with this encouraged way to raise women... Once again I arrive at the conclusion and from reading some of the hate filled posts on this page , parenting has to change for the better and fast... The irony in all of this is, I thought it was so cool my kid had three living Great Grandmothers to love her. Instead, two great grandmothers could not depart from the way they were raised... I was raised by a mother who pulled her own load and was and equal. I am an equal... As for the matriarchs that disdain us? Two less problems without them. I have learned the experience, and now, when I get that flash of hate from other women, I smile at them. I know they hate themselves more than me. I know they are projecting their self hatred on me, and being that I've always been pretty, I'm a very easy target. Only yesterday did I get that look from a beautiful lady who is young enough to be my daughter. I did what I could to cheer her up, but her self hatred was so toxic... I could only wonder what her parents did to her because she was born a girl with Angelina Jolie level physical beauty. Right on the nail lady. I myself was born to a woman who hates other women. She is a malignant narcissist and see's all other women including her daughters as 'competition'. The lengths that this 'creature' has gone to to destroy her own daughters' lives would fill a book. I am no contact with this woman, or my sister who has unfortunately been 'bought' yes, with cash..... These women buy into the Patriarchal ideal. They identify with power. They are completely disconnected from the feminine - taken me many years to figure this out. My mother 'hates' me because she could never break me. She married an abuser of children and stayed with him for 49 years till his death, despite overwhelming evidence of who he was. I got out when I was 18 and never went back. She then tried to turn her hatred onto my daughter - even going so far as to 'set up' my 12 year old daughter for abuse by my father............ I am now 52 years old, my daughter is 26 and is a mother herself. By God's grace we all escaped their wickedness. A fanatastic site 'womb of light' by Bethany Webster goes into great detail about women who buy into Patriarchal power systems. Well worth a read. Ditto your comment about the comments left by other female posters. In my experience I have met other feminists or woman who claim they are feminists yet they can't trust other women with their men, they assume all women are automatically promiscuous when they get a boyfriend and are running after their boyfriend. They also believe that women are just after men's money and the same so called feminist struggles to give another woman a compliment she always takes the high road and rebukes other women who are better at anything then she is as a big headed cow who thinks she is better then everyone. Now the moral of the story is that just because someone calls themselves a feminist doesn't mean they don't abuse women in fact they can sometimes be the biggest abuser and accuser of other women. As a christian feminist I can demonstrate the proper way to treat other women not like those phony get your tits out feminist women and men who think the definition is helpful to all women. I have experience hatred from other women for the mere fact that I am an attractive woman. If a woman is fat or ugly you can guarantee that they will be very nasty to me no matter how nice I am. I have had female friends say they don't want to hang out with me in public because all the guys talk to me. I can't help that just being myself. The female friends that I have made when I was in my 20s and 30s all 99% of them ended up doing is betraying me or stabbing me in the back or try to steal my partner crazy shit but all true and very sad. I have been betrayed by women who did not have shit and dirt poor and I helped them get out of poverty and help find a good job still get betrayed by them. It almost seems like other women are not really trying to get to know you rather than sizing you up to see what they can get out of you and dump you as a friend and move onto the next.

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Sharon Gilchrest O'Neill, a couples therapist in Mt. They try to rush. I find her more attractive today then I did when we first met. Elements are brought up to feel inferior, evil and naturally bad. My point is this. It makes me despair and lose hope because I have low self esteem and to think i have to go through this world just with an average looking or not great responsible girl because i am not good looking enough makes me want to give up…. I know gay couples where one will stay at home. So, I am glad my kid has one great grandmother who loves her. I think it is the biggest missing factor in most sex talks.